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Thursday, 05 November 2009

  • Posted by delaferriere

    The Kingdom is Within

     

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    By inadream39

    "Now that we've got the earth and we've got the sky and the mountains and the rivers and the moon and the stars, now we will create man. Where shall we hide the truth of his being from him? One of them said, "Let's hide it on the highest mountain top." "No, eventually he will learn to scale the mountains, He will find it." God said. "Let's take it down to the very deepest part of the ocean." "No, don't hide it in the deepest part of the ocean. Eventually, man will learn how to go to the darkest, deepest part of the ocean. Don't hide it there." "Well, let's hide it on the moon, then." "No, eventually he'll go to the moon and get it there." Finally, they all knew…all at once, exactly where to hide the truth where mankind would never look for it, and that was within himself."

Tuesday, 03 November 2009

  • Posted by delaferriere

    Todays gratitude

    1. Free personal trainers :)

    dawn

    My favorite yoga student < Dawn > is currently about 8 weeks from getting her certification in fitness training and nutrition and she needs people to train. I'm one of those people!!!YAY! So grateful and I need this really bad.   I've been going to the gym for two years...I eat healthy and cannot lose a pound. HELP ME. I have high hopes Dawn. Thank you :))

    2. Belly dancing. Loving this class. I'm going to continue taking it whenever it is offered. I like the teacher and the other students are fun! It's a great workout too.

    3. "The Diamond in your Pocket" the book I'm reading by Gangaji. Here are a few parts I've highlighted so far.

    *Every thing is subject to change. All objects, thoughts, feelings, states of mind, health and governments. Every circumstance changes. pg.64

    *As long as we settle for the superficial truths, we tragically miss the deeper revelation. pg.66

    *Language is an incredible power of the mind. But if we look at it carefully, we see that it is still in the very primitive stages of development. Everyone can recognize this, just from the experience of trying to communicate with someone else. You know what you said, but they think you said something else. pg.93

    *When you meet suffering head-on, you make the exquisite, paradoxical discovery that suffering holds the very jewel that was sought in the attempt to escape it. pg. 159

    *I invite you for just this moment to stop searching for relief from suffering. The invitation is neither to become oblivious to suffering, nor to give up in despair. It is an invitation to stop searching for something to rescue you from yourself. pg.167

    *To be supported, you have to choose to receive the support fully and completely. pg.169

    *What a strange creature fear is. It exists only when there is resistance to it's existence! pg.175

    *Spiritual maturity has little to do with how people usually conceive it. It is not related to the years you have devoted to spiritual practice, or the number of years you have prayed, gone to church or been good. pg.177

    4. Both of my children are enrolled in college and will begin classes in Jan. I by NO MEANS believe that you must have a college education to succeed in life ..as our society would have us believe..but I am a fan of continued education.   

    5. Discussing life with my husband.

    6. Asking tough questions.

    7. It's November!! I'm madly in love with the month of November. One of my favorite months for sure!

    8. Surrender: You are either in a state of surrender or in a state of war.

    Surrender to your current life circumstances humbly and gracefully.  What does this mean, exactly?It means stopping the struggle.  Giving up the fight.  Awakening to the realization that the more you fight something, the stronger and more pervasive it will become in your life.  Fighting is not the way to peace - surrender is.

    When you read the word "surrender," you probably relate it to "defeat" but the two are entirely different.  Defeat means you've lost the battle; it denotes weakness.  Surrender means you've chosen not to fight and struggle anymore, and this decision comes from a place of POWER. 

     

     

Friday, 30 October 2009

  • Posted by delaferriere

    dedication written in 1957

    This is part of a dedication written in 1957. 

    Upon the Earth today, one of the great requirements of everyone evolving here is to raise us out of human limitation, which we have drawn upon ourselves by our forgetfulness of Source, of our Perfection and of our Fulfillment.  The only way to permanently raise us out of limitation of any kind is to teach us how to transmute our “old” causes of distress and then set “new” causes in action which create different effects in this, our physical appearance world. 

    No type of subsidy and no means of security is ever permanent until we understand how everything flows forth from our own individual consciousness.  So, to enrich our consciousness until we become Master of our own energy within ourselves and learn how we create causes which manifest as effects, the Elohim graciously chose to present to mankind the Science of Precipitation.” 

    It’s this Science of Precipitation that’s been kept hidden from our awareness.  And in this Science, is the understanding of ‘karma’, of cycles, of patterns of cause and effect.  And how they are both changed and transcended. 

    Simple cause and effect. 

    But we have to be unafraid to look within us, in order to be able to see all the associations and correspondences.  And I know us, I know how doubtful we are about ourselves most of the time.  We’re afraid we don’t have what it takes to wrestle with our own demons. 

    So I come along and say, instead of wrestling with them, how about we learn how to make love?   

    Isn’t by definition “hell” a place where the Love of God has not entered?  So what makes a demon, a demon? 

    If we want to rid our lives of our demons all we have to do is love them into non-existence.  Take the gates off Heaven and let Love flow forth unrestricted.  Take the gates off our Hearts. 

    Different causes set up different effects. 

    The key is not how we relate to “being good” but in how we relate to “being bad.”  The cause is not Imperfection but how we relate to it.   We’re scared of it and so long as we are, we won’t be addressing in how many ways it’s true.

    We’re Ignorant, not Stupid.   One can be fixed, the other can’t.

Wednesday, 28 October 2009

  • Posted by delaferriere

    Living in Sync with Winter

    nikole

     

    Ah, winter in Huron County. For the snowmobilers and skiers, this is paradise. But why do the rest of us suffer so? Why do so many of us count the weeks till spring? Why are we dying to trade in our shovel for the lawn mower? Why can’t we make the most of our winter wonderland?

    The biggest problem is that as a species, we human beings don’t like to roll with the seasons. Regardless of what season it is, we want to maintain the same routine, the same levels of productivity, and the same life. And a lot of this comes from the shift to living in town from living on the farm.

    When we lived on the farm, our lives naturally shifted with the seasons. In the spring, we tilled and sowed the land. In the summer we harvested hay and watched our crops grow. In the fall, we harvested the crops for winter. And then, when winter came and the snow fell, we rested along with the land.

    But when we work in offices and businesses, we expect the same level of productivity all year long regardless of what month it is. As far as the business is concerned, the month of the year is irrelevant (unless of course you’re in retail). There is no downtime.

    Then we take this mentality home with us. Regardless of what month it is, Sarah has to get to piano lessons, and Charlie has to get to hockey. There are meetings to go to, events to attend, and so on and so on. We lead busy lives regardless of the season – and sometimes we’re even busier in the winter!

    We honour no cycle of the seasons. There is no winter downtime for us. There is no rest and regeneration time. It is simply go-go-go.

    But in effect, this isn’t reasonable. We are just carbon-based life forms on this planet like the bears, the birds, and the soil that rests all winter. We are connected to the same yearly cycle. We are not separate from it.

    Having these great big brains makes us think that we run according to a different set of rules. But it isn’t true. We are connected to our environment whether we like it or not.

    If you close your eyes, you can feel the difference in the seasons. You can imagine what spring FEELS like. You can feel the newness, the freshness – you can almost FEEL the greenness of the grass. Then imagine what summer FEELS like. It feels different. It is dryer, hotter, “yellower”. We know it right “down to our bones”. And when we then imagine what fall or winter feels like, it feels different again.

    When our schedules and ideals keep us hopping regardless of the season, we end up working against our own bodies. We end up with an inner struggle between the expectations that we’ve set up for ourselves and the body’s natural tendency to attempt to adjust to the seasons. We end up exhausted, sick, depressed, and just generally feeling blah.

    So what can we do about it? How can we adjust to the seasons? How do we synchronize our bodies and minds with wintertime? The great thing is that we instinctively already know how.

    This is the time of year when we want to curl up in a blanket and read. We want to go to bed earlier. We want to eat thick soups and hearty foods that stick to our ribs. But overall, we just want to slow down – we want to rest and recuperate. Deep down, we know that we need some down-time – time to repair from the last season and time to build up our stores to get ready for the next.

    Maybe it’s taking time for a bath. Maybe it’s cutting out a couple of extra-curricular activities (but not my yoga classes!). Maybe it’s simply allowing ourselves to go to bed half an hour earlier – or even an hour earlier with a nice book.

    This is a time to just let the mind and body rest – just like the ground underneath all that snow. The soil isn’t stressing about the snow. It’s just using the snow as an insulating blanket while it rests and gets ready for spring.

    Hmm… Enjoying winter’s insulating blanket of snow to rest as we relax, recuperate, and get ready for spring… Hmm…

    Sounds good to me.

    Katrina,

    www.katrinabos.ca.

Sunday, 25 October 2009

  • Posted by delaferriere

    Things I'm into this week:

    1. red lentil curry

    http://allrecipes.com/Recipe/Red-Lentil-Curry/Detail.aspx

    2. belly dancing

    3. yoga/meditation practice

    4.eating healthy

    5. exercise

    6. honey crisp apples

    7. studying

    8. deep cleaning

    9. Fall weather and falling leaves

    10. my new 500 thread count Chris Madden bed sheets

    11. using the fire place

    12. using my massage table

    13. unconditional love

    14. new friends

    15 selling my treadmill... I don't use it any more. I much prefer walking outside. rain or shine.

    16. In your eyes....one of  Revs new songs

     Things I'm NOT into this week;

    1. holding grudges

    2. fear

    3. being fat... I've gained 10 pounds since April. Feck.

    4. halloween. Some years I'm feelin it...other years I'm not. This year I'm not.

    5. football...I can't ever remember being into football. Neither is my husband. Thank God.

    6. Going to the gym. Time for a change in the exercise dept. Been doing the gym religiously for 2 years. I think I'll dust off some old Firm DVD's and workout at home all winter. I need a change 

    7. insecure, angy people

    8. Having good credit...I really could care less what my credit rating is. Credit is bondage. I'm cash only. No credit needed.

    9. raking leaves

    10. Swine flu and  H1N1 vaccine hysteria. Take some vitamin D instead.

    11.sore throats

    12. People who call the President of the United States and the people who support him names.You can voice your opinion without disrespecting people.

Tuesday, 29 September 2009

  • Posted by delaferriere
    Currently
    Care of the Soul: A Guide for Cultivating Depth and Sacredness in Everyday Life
    By Thomas Moore
    see related

    questions, still small voices, baby kittens and momma's home gratitude

    1. Books. I cannot imagine a life without books. I just ordered 9 books from my Amazon wish list. I plan on sitting by the fire and reading this winter. GLORIOUS!

    2. New Baby Kitties.Kittens are theraputic. We haven't named him yet. We're taking suggestions.

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    3. PBS. Ken Burns’s latest project airing on PBS: The National Parks: America’s Best Idea. Fabulous. Set your DVR.

    4. Good Questions:

    You must constantly ask yourself these questions: Who am I around? What are they doing to me? What have they got me reading? What have they got me saying? Where do they have me going? What do they have me thinking? And most important, what do they have me becoming? Then ask yourself the big question: Is that okay? Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change."
     
    - Jim Rohn

    5. Random pic's of my guy posted on blogs by fans all over the internet:

     

    revand reese

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    revand bis

    6. My business is picking up again. I only have one full time opening. When I first started this business 12 years ago there were over 200 licensed home daycares in my town. Lot's of competition. Today there are less than 10...and I'm sure that most of them went under in the past 2 years. I'm grateful to have survived.

     

    7. Mom is home from the hosital. Recovering well and getting stronger everyday. Grateful.

     

    8.  Still Small Voice:

    Your still small voice is still not because it lacks conviction. On the contrary, this is your most passionate voice. The still voice cares passionately about what happens in the world. It’s still because it accepts reality. You have nothing to defend or protect. You state your case calmly and respectfully, and genuinely look for win/win solutions.

     

Monday, 21 September 2009

  • Posted by delaferriere

    gratitude and bread

    1) My mother is in the hospital after suffering from "mini stroke" ...# 4 in the past 3 years. This time the symptoms (which have been different every time) have not gone away. Usually within a couple hours she is feeling okay but we are going on 72 hours with no change in symptoms. She is being monitored. We pray. I am grateful that my sister's job is flexible and is able to care for my head injured step father during the week. I'm grateful the symptoms so far is only numbness on the left side. Grateful she is still able to walk and talk and besides the numbness feels pretty good.

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    2) Grateful to Starr for staying with my dad last night so I could attend our friend Paul Miles' CD release party. I was away from my guy all weekend caring for my step dad so it was nice to be able to spend the evening with him. Dinner and drinks and great music....and LOTS of connections made with several people interested in recording at our studio. NIIIICE. Grateful.

    paul and Grace

    Paul Miles and Grace

     

    3) Grateful that the leaves are changing. I LOVE FALL.

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    fall pic taken by starr Oct. 2006

    4) Grateful to Esther who selflessly pulled an all nighter last Tuesday night down in our studio mixing a 14 song CD (the above mentioned release party) in 6 hours after working 10 hours at her day job. WHAT A TROOPER.

    esther

    5) The new playset that I got from my neighbor is now in my yard. It is so awesome. It's got a tree house like feel with an awesome wavy slide, swings, monkey bars and a rock climbing wall. THE KIDS LOVE IT. My own kids love it. The other night I found Starr and Nicolette up in the tree fort part. One was reading and the other writing in a journal. :)) They always wanted a playset like that when they were little but I'd NEVER EVER fork over the  $1,500 they want for one. That is CRAZY. So they are enjoying it now as young adults. GRATEFUL.

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    Not the actual one I have but similar :)

    6) Grateful that Nicolette had no problem finding a job after working for me all summer. She found a nanny job for 3 of the cutest kids EVER!

    7) Grateful that my brother and SIL are coming for Thanksgiving :))

    8) Grateful to my sister for helping Nicolette find as many scholarship applications that she can possibly apply for. She is way better at that stuff than me.

    9) Baking bread. It's bread baking season. I've been baking a lot of bread. I saw this mentioned on RJ blog's  

    http://rj-whenlovecomestotown.blogspot.com/

    and found it to be fabulous (his whole blog is actually fabulous) so I wanted to share:

     

    The Spirituality of Bread by Donna Sinclair.

    People of every culture are tied together by the breads they bake. Bread helps us remember who we are and whom we love. Bread gives us calm. It is the opposite of fast food. You cannot make bread in ten minutes and the slow work of kneading and shaping and meditating heals our over-scheduled lives. Bread demands peace; you cannot grow grain in a battlefield. And justice: cheap bread that depends on the loss of the family farm is too bitter to eat. Bread, in fact, rises up out of the past into our fractured postmodern age. When we question all our assumptions and struggle to find a reason for existence, the making of bread gives meaning. There is no rational explanation for this. The healing power of making bread has nothing to do with the mind and everything to do with the wisdom of the hands.

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Wednesday, 09 September 2009

  • Posted by delaferriere

    Marquette Weekend

    1. We had a lovely long Labor Day weekend in Marquette, MI. The upper Pennisula is magical. We will return in the future with more time to explore. Some of the Coastal Lake Superior water was reminiscent of the beautiful blue caribbean I visited a few months back. WHO KNEW!

    Miners Cove at Pictured Rocks

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    Me and The Rev. We had a picnic dinner on this Lake Superior beach

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    Miners Beach

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    2. The Rev played the Marquette Blues Festival Sunday afternoon at 2:30.

    After a Saturday night we all need some Sunday, right...Amen!!

    And they kicked ass as usual.

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    I love this shot ...you can see the crowd in his sunglasses.

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    I'd like to Thank everyone from the Marquette Blues Society for all their incredible hospitality. We have never been treated so well...like royalty. We seriously had to pinch ourselves several times...it was like a dream. VIP to the max. Thank all the fans. During this bad economy we SOLD OUT of  CD's that day. They bought every last one. WOOT. And the Rev was honored that he had a line waiting for him and he signed autographs for about an hour after the show. We are grateful for the LOVE. Amazingly good time. We hope to return next year. MANY, MANY THANKS MARQUETTE.

    3. This Saturday will be our last Summer time Hoorah before fall ushers in.... dinner downtown, followed by a romantic Detroit River Walk and then a Tiger baseball game with Fireworks at the end!!Grateful for another fine Michigan Summer :)

    Speaking of Fall...Lets us remember:

     As Autumn is on our heels we give thanks for the abundance that the long sunny days and warm nights have given, we also take this moment to balance, to rest, to simply be, and prepare ourselves for the growing cold and dark. And to recognize and remember, as always, that what appears as death is merely the preparation for rebirth. That what is reaped at the harvest will become seed for next year.

Tuesday, 01 September 2009

  • Posted by delaferriere
    Currently
    The Seat of the Soul
    By Gary Zukav
    see related

    gratitude

    1. I just finished reading the Kabbalah on the Sabbath. Fitting since my own ritual of rest begins soon. Very powerful little book. I plan on reading more Yehuda Berg in the future. Grateful for Jewish Mystics. GRATEFUL FOR ALL MYSTICS.

    2. Rev and the boys put on a couple killer shows recently

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    FREAKIN ROCKSTAR RIGHT THERE

    3. It's been an unseasonably cold summer. I find it absolutely perfect. Any summer without air conditioning is a good summer!

    4. My best neighbor moved last weekend. She sold me her $1,500 outdoor swing/playset for $400. Half of which I paid for by bartering daycare services this summer. Very grateful as I'm convinced my 11 year old piece of crap swing set was ready to cave in on some kids any minute.

    5. Last week was Hell week around here. Lot's of fear, pain, sorrow and gnashing of teeth. Grateful indeed. These are trying times but also teaching times. Tough for sure but in the end all will be better than before. That I know for sure.

    6. Softball season was great this year. My guys team finished 3rd.

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    Rev and his little brother Noah. Their Dad is the coach. Wholesome family fun. Grateful.

    7. True surrender. True surrender does not mean to passively put up with what ever situation you find yourself in and to do nothing about it. Nor does it mean to cease making plans or initiating positive action. Surrender is the simple but profound wisdom of yielding to rather than opposing the flow of life. To offer no resistance to life is to be in a state of grace,ease and lightness.

    8. Impermanence. Letting go of things in order to make room for new things to arise and transformations to happen.

    9. Being fully present. Drama cannot live in presence. Thank God.

    10. Love and the fact that it's not selective or exclusive.

    11. All things that truly matter. Beauty, love, creativity, joy, inner peace.

    12. My yoga class begins on the 23rd. >>>>>big heavy sigh<<<<<<

    Besides teaching yoga, I am taking 3 other classes as a student. BELLY DANCING (sexy, I know!) a water aerobics class and a cardio class. Movement 4 days a week on top of going to the gym 3 mornings a week. The older I get the more I must move. 

    13. Headed to beautiful Marquette Michigan for Labor Day Weekend with my guy. Located in the upper pennisula along the shores of Lake Superior. Breathtakingly beautiful Native American Indian Territory. CAN.NOT.WAIT.

     

Monday, 24 August 2009

  • Posted by delaferriere

    100 Lessons I'm Learning

    1. Everything I need is within me.

    2. There is only NOW.

    The past is over.

    The future is a dream.


    3. Love is the only game in town.


    4. It's easy to forget.

    But it's also easy to remember.


    5. Eventually we all have to let go

    (so why not let go now?
    .

    6. Everything changes.



    7. I am not the doer.



    8. It feels good to release stuff

    I don't really need.



    9. I am never more

    than a breath away from fulfillment.



    10. If I die today, I'll die happy.

    ..
    11. Everything happens for the best.



    12. Life is a gift.



    13. I can't clean a muddy pond

    by poking at it with a stick.



    14. Every time I point a finger,

    three are pointing back at me.



    15. Rapport and trust

    must be created

    before anyone is willing

    to listen to us.


    16. It's a blessing to serve.



    17. I am not here to teach anybody anything.

    I am here to love -

    and the love will do the teaching.



    18. There will never be peace on Earth

    until the people on Earth are at peace.



    19. Worry is optional.



    20. When I stop projecting

    my stuff on the universe,

    I begin to enjoy the real movie of life.


     

    21. Marriage is a yoga.



    22. Life is not supposed to be a struggle.



    23. We are either in the forest of love

    or the forest of fear.

    We are always in one or the other,

    but never both.



    24. Doubt is a killer. Give up doubt.


    25. Time flies like an arrow.

    Fruit flies like bananas.

    26. I am not taking anything with me

    that I don't already have.


    27. It's impossible to understand truth

    exclusively with the mind.

    The mind can know about the truth,

    but it cannot experience the truth.



    28. Life is not what you think.



    29. Take more time

    to smell the roses

    (and plant some, too).



    30. There is a feeling deep within my heart

    that is absolutely exquisite.
    ........


    31. Be mindful of which wolf

    you are feeding.



    32. There is a difference

    between want and need.

    Need comes from lack

    Wanting
    comes from abundance



    33. The world appears more beautiful

    the more beautiful I feel.



    34. Time is an illusion.



    35. Let go of letting go.

    Then let go of that, too.


    36. There is nothing to be afraid of.



    37. Drink more champagne.



    38. Trust that which is trustworthy.



    39. Stretch more.



    40. Don't turn my point of view into a religion.
    ....



    41. Be kinder.



    42. Get enough rest.


    43. Slow down.

    Less is more.



    44. I am not a victim.

    No one has power over me.



    45. I am responsible

    (and so are you).
    ....


    46. Money is not the root of all evil.

    Ignorance of the truth is the root of all evil.



    47. Most conversations are about the past,

    the future, or unfinished business.



    48. Honor thy incarnation (Ram Dass)



    49. When I'm not on the path,

    it's razor thin.

    When I'm on the path,

    it's a million miles wide.



    50. One man's ceiling

    is another man's floor. (Paul Simon)
    ........


    51. All Masters

    have said the same thing

    in different ways.



    52. Everything I need is coming to me,

    and I already have everything I need.



    53. Keep it simple.



    54. We're all in this together.



    55. When a pickpocket meets a saint,

    all he sees are pockets.


    56. Ideas are sometimes more than ideas.

    They are inspirations from the beyond

    that need to be honored.



    57. We all have a story to tell.

    Let's tell it already.



    58. Learn from your mistakes.



    59. Enjoy this "come as you are" party.



    60. The goal is not perfection.

    The goal is to become fully awake.


    61. Eat more sushi.



    62. I can only take one breath at a time.



    63. Life is a dance.



    64. I am both the center of the universe

    and an extremely small particle of dust.



    65. Drink more water.



    66. The people I don't like

    often teach me more

    than my friends.



    67. Lighting a candle

    is the best way

    to remove darkness



    68. Life is not so much about the what,

    but the how.



    69. Be careful not to get addicted

    to my own story.



    70. When you meet the Buddha on the road,

    ask him if he wants a foot massage.


    71. Celebrate more.



    72. Learn how to say no without being negative.



    73. Each step is also an arrival.



    74. There's nothing wrong with inconsistency.

    Yes there is.



    75. Peace is possible on planet Earth.


    76. Not everything that counts can be counted;

    and not everything that can be counted, counts.

    (Einstein)



    77. Read all contracts carefully

    before signing them.



    78. The mind is a chicken

    with its head cut off.



    79. Breathe deep.



    80. Ask for help.



    81. Life is an open book.

    Write it.



    82. Stop trying so hard.



    83. Write a letter, by hand,

    once in a while.



    84. It's not about what others think of me.

    It's what I think of myself.

    (PS: Who's doing the thinking?)



    85. Confusion is just a word

    for an order that is not yet understood.

    (Henry Miller)
    ....


    86. Be the same in a room full of people

    as I am when alone.



    87. 50 is the new 49.



    88. Every moment of life

    has the potential to be the best one yet.



    89. Stop complaining.



    90. Whatever I do,

    give it my best.



    91. Listen more deeply.



    92. Treasure my friends.



    93. Be happy for others' successes.



    94. Gratitude is the most authentic prayer.



    95. God cannot be googled.



    96. Practice Knowledge



    97. Pause.



    98. I have no problems.


    The only problem I have

    is thinking I have problems.



    99. Every cloud has a silver lining.

    Every silver lining has a golden lining.



    100. Be a field big enough

    for others to dance in.


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